People get Burned out...

Sometimes people are not just plain ole lazy some people are relied upon so much that they don't have the energy to do anything worthwhile for themselves.. 

Some people are simply exhausted mentally, physically, and emotionally it takes a toll on your drive and motivation after dealing with the lack of support or dysfunctional relationships between family members and friends plus those you cross paths with along the way. 

People have a lot of nerve judging what they have yet to experience or even heard of, or know anything about wearing those uncomfortable shoes with a smile, if you know what I mean. How can you say how you would or wouldn't be, what you would or wouldn't do, etc. if you didn't/don't have to make that choice? 

Be kind, you never know what a person is dealing with. Take a note from the old school.. 

If you don't have anything good to say don't say anything at all. If you cant help the situation don't pry too much. The hardships people go through are for them to share not you!! (Note to Self)